10JULY7663I was protecting us. When I say you must choose between truth and lie

10JULY7660s of what probably felt like silence to speak to you about these thing

10JULY7659daughter, and I am fighting for your soul. The reason it took me year

10JULY7652 me. It nearly destroyed my marriage. My family was on the brink of co

10JULY7651ar nearly everything—especially intimacy. That fear nearly destroyed

10JULY7650d as more important than reality. And because of that, I learned to fe

10JULY7644nor you—not just for your sake, but for the good of my life and my c

10JULY7629ust learned a lot of lies, the answer is the same—TRUTH. If your wi

10JULY7626t of all the sons of Adam. And therefore, she is the most valuable of

10JULY7622too. Just like Jesus will have with her, I have secrets with my wife

10JULY7621ause I tell her every day—she is my perfect wife. You can have one

10JULY7611as lied. The world has lied. Even pastors told me to kill my desires,

10JULY7610ne. I couldn't be one of the Two Witnesses without her. The Church h

10JULY7608and Donald Trump and testify to the truth. She is fearless—because s

10JULY7605knows it. I made her rich, and she made me richer. She is my endless w

10JULY7597 Corinthians 3:13) You must plant and water and labor for your reward

10JULY7596manifest…the fire will test what sort of work each one has done." (1

10JULY7586m. He cannot reap what hasn't grown. You must labor for Him. You must

10JULY7584by truth. Learn how to harvest your wife from Him—first learn how he

10JULY7581f his wife's soul and body, he ought to rejoice when the harvest comes

10JULY7574, integrity, mercy, and pride wants more of himself. And he should. I

10JULY7573re than another one of himself? A man of reason, independence, justice

10JULY7569 She gains certainty. No more guilt. No more doubt. No more wondering,

10JULY7565sacrifice for her. But he is not satisfied. He has settled. And a man

10JULY7564impossible for her to be his perfect wife. He may support her. He may

10JULY7563becomes anything other than what her husband desires, it is logically

10JULY7555 There is only right and wrong. There is no conflict of interest among

10JULY7551to the image of her Christ. And it's because I taught her the truth.

10JULY7546rotect our family because she has a strong mind. She is a warrior. She

10JULY7535 good for my wife. Every counselor, every book, every voice—I judged

10JULY7533 worth living. The kind of wife worth celebrating. I wanted a return o

10JULY7531 and the weight of lies. I wanted Jolene healed—not for some abstrac

10JULY7528 learn how to think. She needed to be able to judge rightly, so that s

10JULY7527 deduction and Christian Objectivism is what healed her. She needed to

10JULY7524e Internal Family Systems model helped identify many of the contradict

10JULY7520ving", and "No Bad Parts" became our guides. One of the core questions

10JULY7518on of what I suspected—this was C-PTSD. We studied intently. Books

10JULY7517d been too terrified to face finally surfaced. It was clear confirmati

10JULY7515anted them burned. This mirrored clinical findings in trauma research:

10JULY7514urned, she had gathered up all the photos of her dad and told me she w

10JULY7512se is MDMA. My goal was to give her five hours of uninterrupted safety

10JULY7508ng continues, refining neural circuits over time. Jolene had a broken

10JULY7504lp her heal. My working model was this: synaptic pruning isn't a one-

10JULY7493prayers! After the affair ended, I was planning to move into the base

10JULY7491 He did everything I asked. He saved me from my own destruction. This

10JULY7484d me she was not the one He had given me to say, "Well done, good and

10JULY7482 What terrified me was that it made me happy. And then, like Solomon,

10JULY7480 I needed to kill them. Since every "Christian" around me was a liar,

10JULY7478at the beginning: that I needed to be content. That the problem wasn't

10JULY7463r and her family because they had always closed it. I was trapped (so